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“May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. ”
1 of 8 | Posted by: JULIE O'HARA - Family

“Chris, Dick and family,I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Nancy was a wonderful person, she had a big...Read More »
2 of 8 | Posted by: Linda Picelli - Bedford, MA

“Chris and Family,I am soooo sorry on the your loss of your beloved Nancy. I have know Mrs. Grimes for a long time since I was a teenager and friends...Read More »
3 of 8 | Posted by: Lois Lee - Waltham, MA

“Chris and family, Sorry for your loss.Please know you're in our thoughts and prayers. Judy & Michael ”
4 of 8 | Posted by: Judy Keough - Waltham, MA

“In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. ”
5 of 8 | Posted by: Hazel Doucette - Sister

“So sorry for your loss. She was an amazing person, one that I am proud to have been able to call Mom for years. Love you always ”
6 of 8 | Posted by: Cheryl Gonsalves - Nashua, NH

“I don't know you I'm so sorry to hear about your wife passing she is now resting In peace may god be with you and your family you are all in my prays...Read More »
7 of 8 | Posted by: Lorraine Butler - Derry, NH

“Chris,Sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.Judy & Michael ”
8 of 8 | Posted by: Judy Keough - Waltham, MA

Mrs. Nancy R. (O'Hara) Grimes, of Waltham, died Thursday, May 6, 2021 in The Stone Rehabilitation & Senior Living Center in Newton. She was 79.

Nancy was born on June 26, 1941 in Waltham a daughter of the late Henry and Mary (Fitzpatrick) O'Hara. Raised and educated in Waltham she married Richard H. Grimes in Saint Mary's Church on June 25, 1961 and they remained lifelong Waltham residents.

Nancy began work as a nurse's aide at the former Waltham Hospital where she was employed for over 17 years. She then worked in the wire division at Raytheon Corporation before returning to nursing as a certified nurse assistant at Maristhill Nursing Home where she worked over 10 years before retiring.

She was an avid bowler and played in leagues both at Raytheon and the Wal-Lex . She was a familiar face at the Friday night bingo games at Our Lady's Church and was a die-hard Red Sox and Bruins fan as by default a Patriots fan as her husband and son would together watch all the games.

Nancy was predeceased by her daughter, Michelle A. Grimes and siblings, Joseph, Edward, Robert, William, Patrick 'Sonny' O'Hara, Eileen Messina, Mary Early, Cathy O'Hara and Patricia Wright;

She leaves her husband of 59 years Richard H. Grimes; her son, Christopher S. Grimes of Waltham; her siblings, Walter O'Hara of Weston, Hazel Doucette of Ashland, Elizabeth 'Betty' O'Hara of Newton, New Hampshire; also survived by many nieces & nephews.

Family and friends will honor Nancy's life by gathering for calling hours on Thursday, May 13th from 4 to 7 pm at The Joyce Funeral Home, 245 Main Street (Rte. 20), Waltham. Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Friday morning at 10 am at Saint Mary's Church, 133 School Street, Waltham. Burial will follow in Mount Feake Cemetery.

Those wishing to view Nancy's Funeral Mass may also do so by visiting

A note from the funeral home pursuant to Governor Baker's recent order:

During times of uncertainty and crisis one might wonder what to do at the loss of a loved one or how to show support to a friend given the limitations that the pandemic continues to present.

Telephone your friend to offer words of love and support, give them a virtual hug, drop something delicious by the house, leave a condolence on the funeral home website, make a donation to their favored charity, send a card or flowers or have a Mass said, remain in touch, and above all else . . . say prayers for the deceased and their family and the world during this difficult and unprecedented time.

These simple gifts of sympathy and charity are more valuable than you will ever know.

When public wakes are held capacity limits mean that your visit should be brief to allow other guests time to say hello to the family. Only members of the immediate family remain present throughout.

It goes without saying that people who have lost someone are especially sensitive and understanding to the concerns that some of their own family members and friends may have about visiting any public places right now. If this does not feel like the right time for you to venture out please don't.

Space limitations also mean that funeral services inside the funeral home and in some places of worship may also be private.

Most services, at the family's request, will also be livestreamed and recorded for future viewing. The link to access the channel is found at the bottom of the obituary notice online.

During any events, public or private, common sense precautions prevail. That includes masks covering your nose and mouth, staying with your household group throughout the services and keeping a sensible distance.

Thank you . . . again . . . for your patience and understanding

Upcoming Funeral Services

Mount Feake Cemetery

203 Prospect Street Waltham, MA 02453